The other day I received 2 harassing submissions through my site SpoilKayla.com the first was humerous enough pretending to be a trustfund kid wanting a submissive woman to cook and clean for him, the second would have been offensive if I didn't have parents that love me through and through regardless of my career path.
After receiving these emails as well as some other harassing tweets the same day I decided to post the following on twitter:
'Laughing hysterically at (not with) the loser troll who keeps filling out the submission form on http://spoilkayla.com" @kjdangerdoll
I also posted the following to the general haters / trolls etc
"Some of you have way too much free time- get productive then maybe you won't hate your life enough to take it out in someone you don't know" @kjdangerdoll
Anyway, the person who sent in the harassing submissions decided to submit another ...
"Just read your tweets talking about presumably me. I only submitted 2 forms one under varinder ghuman and other as "your father". If there were any others then those weren't me. Judging by your tweets you seemed offended but I'm not sure if your mad about mine. I didn't mean to offend you and if I did I'm sorry. I was just screwing around. I saw this video on worldstar with you in it and you look exactly like one of my highschool teachers so I searched you up. I've been diagnosed with cancer and have a lot of free time on my hand so I do stupid things sometimes when I'm bored. I'm not the type of guy that hurts other people and have always tried to be my nicest to others. We'll never meet each other and I don't even know you personally so I can't say anything bad about you. I sincerely hope you get out of the porn industry. Be true to yourself there are a lot of other ways to make money. I'm not saying your a bad person. There are people out here that literally kill for a living and destroy lives. I don't think your hurting anyone and your intentions are probably good. However, porn objectifies women and treats them as things. Statistically pornstars are not happy and the ones who do get out talk about how they were never truly living life. I hope you get out and educate other people on the dangers of objectifying women. I believe that everything happens for a reason and although we'll never meet, sending this message might have been my fate and reading it yours. Stay positive and be true to yourself, don't live your life trying to please men."
Dear Kelly Buttlar
Only one of my tweets was directed at you, the other was directed to any and all people that feel the need to bully or harass people on the internet through anonymously posting / messaging etc. Which if you couldn't tell is exactly what you were doing. You were using a line of communication meant for a certain subset of my fans, customers, clients and subs, this is one of the many ways I make money and you were just messing with it like it was a game. I can promise, my career, is not a game, or a joke or worth any less respect and professionalism than any other profession. Would you submit the same messages to the president of your favorite company using the company website's messaging system? Or for that matter, would you have written and submitted those messages to your boss? Or do you not have a job?
If you do have cancer, that is an unfortunate diagnosis that I take very seriously since I had a similar diagnosis 2 years ago which I kept private, I worked my ass off while I was undergoing treatment and only 6 people in my life knew what was going on. To the rest of the world I had a smiling face, was being productive and even if I wasn't leaving my house, I was working hard.
You see, that is one of the great things about owning an online business. I am able to stock up content for as long as I want based on how productive I am, and how much I work and shoot. I was able to make a schedule for myself soI could work around my treatment schedule and continue to provide for myself and family during my treatment. I didn't sit around scolding other people for their life choices without knowing the first thing about them. I didn't have time to spew hate because I was too busy trying to be normal , too busy trying to continue on with life and keep growing my business.
You've always tried to be your nicest to other's but you had the audacity to "speak for my FATHER!?!" Well you know what . My Dad loves me, just a few months ago he walked me down the isle and read at my wedding. My dad asks me about production, awards, and life and so does my mother, and yes they are still together with about 35 years of marriage under their belt, just in case you were going to blame a broken home, or daddy issues as well.
In all your research about me, what did you actually learn? Did you realize that I own KJD Media and Provocateur PIctures? Did you realize that I own several websites and only perform in softcore and fetish videos? You see, I have a commodity, and a skillset that I use to create the job of my dreams that allows me to be creative, travel, work when I want to work and with who I want to work. No one is forcing me to do anything I don't want to do and as hard as it may be for you to believe I am totally happy with my life and career. Since your research clearly didn't bring you to this website - KaylaJaneDanger.com you didn't find out that not only am I already 'truly living my life' but I am also true to myself.
Finally I wanted to let you know that without this industry, this job, this career that I have ... I probably wouldn't be moving to the caribbean to open a dive retreat & build my house before the age of 30 ...
Please I beg you, stop trying to live a life to please others, find your true self and don't let anyone talk you down from what you are passionate about, no matter what! Maybe then you will realize why I took the time to educate YOU on the dangers of judging others!